Yesterday
I met the father of a friend for the very first time. He is a physicist from
California and it’s one of the deepest conversations I have had with any one in
a LONG time.
I
didn’t do sports in high school or college. I did archaeology and science. That
was my thing. I was a thinker and really not a follower. I was an idealist and really
thought I was going to help “save” the world. I searched for the right path in
college on how to save the world but at the end of the day I decided the best
place to start is in your own world and I personally could only touch one life
at a time. I had daydreamed of traversing exotic lands (and still do) saving
lives as a medical doctor and collecting plants around the world that could
save lives.
At
some point you grow up, you have children, and for me I realized I couldn’t
bear to be away from my children. Other people are happy following their career
and conquering the world but after a Masters in Chemistry and Biology and
almost a doctorate in Pharmacognosy, I decided I was really happy being a mom.
On top of that I ended up becoming a homeschool mom and I’m with my children
ALL the time but they are so young and I hate missing out in their lives and I
feel like I have so much to teach them.
So
the deep philosophical conversation with my friend’s father came down to his
opinion that anybody can do sports but not everyone can be a great thinker,
leader, and discover something that will help mankind. He really felt his
daughter and I should get together and come out with that great discovery –whatever
that might be.
Now,
this has got to be coming from a guy who did not raise three children and was
not with three small children ALL day long trying to nurture and teach them as
much as possible. I can’t remember the last time I even went to the bathroom
alone much less find that time to make the great discovery that is going to
change the world.
What
I did do was find MUCH happiness in sports. Go figure after thousands and
thousands of dollars on enlightening education and travelling the world, I
found comfort, stability, and happiness in exercise. It is quite the balancing
aspect of my life. It makes me a better parent and a better person for the
world. For now I can only start with me and the people in my world. Saving the
world will have to come later – after I’m done preparing and serving ten trillion
meals a day, teaching my kids how to read, and empowering their minds with the
truth lying within science and history. While anybody can do sports, I sure did
find a place for it in my life and in my path towards happiness.
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